If you have to read this blog or ask yourself…THEN HE PROBABLY IS A FUCKBOY, AND YOU SHOULD DROP HIS ASS!
Use this post as your friendly reminder that you’re not alone in dealing with them.
I’ve compiled a few helpful hints, red flags, and a breakdown of fuckboy characteristics/tendencies as a quick guide to help a fellow sistah out!
AFuckboy or fuccboi. (f?k-boi) Is literally the epitome of a human migraine in a man’s body and a nuisance to all if not most women. Thank you, Internet!
Now you may have a general idea of who or what a fuckboy is, but can’t precisely say how he is one. To be fair, the nature of their fuckery varies on a case by case basis. Sooooo let’s start off by defining their idiocies.
WARNING: these are all my own thoughts, ideas, and definitions from my personal experiences. Not everyone may agree with them. Anyways, hereis the general criteria…
A fuckboy is a man that embodies all the traits we loathe. A fuckboy is a man that …
Doesn’t respect you or your wishes
Only hits you up when it’s convenient for him
Does not keep his promises
Puts in zero to minimal effort
Doesn’t care about your time
Is “too busy.”
Has commitment issues
Leads you on
Compares you to other women
Only talks about your physical appearance
Mentions sex right off the bat
Sends unwanted dick pics
Does stupid things
Toys with your emotions
Is the reason for your trust issues
Basically, a man who will say or do anything to hook up with you or keep you on the hook. He is a 2.0 upgrade to your average Supreme wearing, fade haircut having, and”can I join lol ;)?” asking when you say you’re “about to shower” FUCKBOY.
IF READING ISN’T YOUR THING: HERE IS A VISUAL FOR FURTHER CLARIFICATION
NOTE: This definition doesn’t classify all men as fuckboys. Meaning that some men will just have fuckboy like tendencies but can still be “genuine.” Use your best judgment, I guess. If you still have doubt then check out Fuckboy Red Flags.
BUTTTT, in this case, I am going to refer to the ones I’ve run into as fuckboys to better highlight the pitfalls of dating at times.
Now if you’re going to ask me, are they really all fuckboys or you just being overly dramatic?
Truthfully, all the men I’ve talked about are on a spectrum. Some lean towards the GRADE A ASSHOLE and some just have idiotic tendencies that landed them on this list!